10 Mistakes You Don’t Want to Make When Flying With Baby

When working with parents and children, organization and planning are key to success. With the holidays approaching, it’s always nice to have little reminders to stay on course, especially when traveling with children! This post originally appeared on Less is More, a group of professional organizers with expertise in all things organization!

SARAH NELSON

Flying with a young child is an experience that, eventually, many of us parents must face. If you have never done this before, however, you can’t really understand how radically different an airplane ride with your baby or toddler will be. I have two children of my own, and feel like I have learned hard way what to and what not to do. Avoiding these 10 common mistakes and assumptions will help your journey be quite a bit less stressful:

1. Scheduling a flight during “the witching hour.”

When my children were about 1 and 4 I decided that flying at the end of the day would be a good idea because the flight was cheaper, and the children would be tired and just might fall asleep. Six years later I am still haunted by that experience. Learn from the mistake made by many well-intentioned parents: splurge on a non-stop flight during the time your child is naturally the most pleasant, REGARDLESS OF THE PRICE. Trust me.

2. Boarding early.

While it is recommended that you get to the airport earlier than usual, don’t rush to get on the plane. Hang out by the gate and let your toddler work off some energy. Make sure to do a last minute diaper change in the airport bathroom, as there will be much more room to spread out.

3. Dismissing the flight crew.

Be nice to the flight attendants. Make them part of your village. You will need as many allies as possible when spills happen and other travelers complain. If you are traveling alone with children, swallow your pride entirely and ask the first flight attendant who smiles at your child if he or she could check in with you regularly.

4. Leaving the wipes and sanitizer at home.

Wipes are amazingly handy on a flight. You really cannot have too many of them.

5. Not packing enough snacks.

A full baby is a happy baby. You only make this mistake once.

6. Underestimating the importance of extra plastic bags.

Make sure to shove a few in the diaper bag. You will need at least one bag to corral all the garbage baby generates in the seats. It is a nice courtesy to fellow travelers to be able to use a plastic bag to contain diaper smells.

7. Forgetting extra clothing.

Between diaper leaks and spilled drinks, the chances that something will spill on you or your child is very high. An extra pair of baby clothes takes up no space at all, so why not just pack one?

8. Throwing all of your gear into one large, deep carry-on bag.

Nothing is quite as annoying as rummaging through all of your gear for a small pacifier while the baby is screaming bloody murder in a confined space. Instead, organize the contents of your baby bag in a series of kits: one with all the supplies you need for changing diapers, another with snacks for the baby, a third with toys, etc. That way, when you have to shimmy into the bathroom to change a diaper, all you have to do is carry the baby and a zippered plastic bag of changing necessities.

9. Packing a book or magazine for yourself.

For the next few years, flying will not be about you catching up on the latest celebrity gossip. The quicker you realize this fact, the happier everyone will be.

10. Not looking back to make sure you have everything as you exit the plane.

You never want to leave a cherished blanket behind as you step off the plane into an unfamiliar city. If possible, let your spouse exit with the baby while you double check the seat back pockets, floor, and seats.

Outdoor Sensory Play

One of the biggest perks of living in Chicago is the plethora of outdoor spaces we have to enjoy the amazing summer weather. Being cooped up with kids throughout the long months of winter and “spring” in Chicago leaves us craving outdoor time and space to run around. Every neighborhood throughout the city has numerous parks to explore in our own backyards, or there are the larger parks and natural areas including Lincoln Park, the beachfront, Garfield or Lincoln Park Conservatories, and the various gardens including Buckingham Fountain Flower Garden! Our city has so much to see and explore, it will keep you and your little ones busy all summer!

Kids of all ages (and parents!) enjoy playing outside! Sometimes we get into the routine of getting out, going to the park, and playing the same way every day, and we miss the opportunity to explore the world around us. There are so many different ways we can use our environment to help our children grow, learn, and appreciate the beauty of nature.

Outdoor Scavenger Hunts:

Starting from birth it is so important to talk with your children, because the more they are exposed to language, the quicker their linguistics skills develop. Day to day it can be tough coming up with a variety of things to say, and it can feel like we are a broken record saying the same things. Getting out and talking about your new experiences can be a great change of pace.

“Let’s go for a walk! Look at that tree! The leaves are starting to turn green. Do you see the ladybug? What color is the ladybug?” What may seem like one-dimensional commentary for you can be extremely stimulating to infants and toddlers. And as they start to babble back, you can use what they are “saying” to respond as if you are actually having a conversation, rather than responding with baby talk. “Oh, really? You think the ladybug is red? Good job! He’s red with black spots!” This kind of back and forth modeling demonstrates to your child that what they say matters, and they love the reciprocity because it validates them.

As your little ones start to become more interactive and interested in exploring, let them walk around and pick up things—rocks, sticks, leaves, flower petals, etc. You can talk about all of these things: the color, texture, shape, and purpose. Once they are able to identify these items you can go on a simple sensory scavenger hunt.  You can create a scavenger hunt spur of the moment by prompting your little one to find something simple, “Let’s find a yellow flower!” Or you can find a picture scavenger hunt online and go search for the objects from those pictures. Once your child is a bit older and beginning to sight read, you can do word scavenger hunts for items such as bugs, rocks, flowers. You can also incorporate disposable cameras; as they find an item on the list they can take a picture of it, which, once printed, can be turned into a collage or other craft.

Outdoor Sensory Play   

            Sensory play is another great way that young children learn about the world around them. Before parents and teachers started using sensory bins and tubs kids were exploring and engaging their senses out in the natural world. The best thing about using nature for sensory exploration is that you don’t have to clean up the mess inside!

Outdoor sensory play does not have to be planned and fancy. Simply letting your little ones dig in the dirt, sand, and grass or feel the wind on their faces and listen to the birds chirping is sensory play!

The reason sensory play is so encouraged is because more and more children are beginning to show sensory issues. Little ones aren’t moving and active outdoors like generations past. Climbing trees, spinning in circles until you fall over, and rolling around in the grass aren’t encouraged like they once were. Children today are much more sedentary because we, as adults, restrict their movement and if movement isn’t encouraged children can develop difficulties with sensory processing.

To promote sensory development while out and about in the city you can encourage balance and gross motor skills by allowing your little ones to do a balance beam along a curb or on garden stones. Balance and proprioception (awareness of your position through movement) can also be encouraged by skipping, and rolling around in the grass at the park, or spinning around in circles.

Playing in a sandbox or mud, feeling the grass with hands and feet, touching the different textures of trees and leaves are all excellent ways to not only explore nature but to also talk about nature and encourage sensory play.

         Now that summer has arrived it’s time to get out of the buildings we’ve been confined to throughout the winter months and get outside for some fresh air and adventure! Help your little ones develop their sensory awareness and language skills by exploring their world and all that Chicago has to offer! Encourage them to get out and get active! Summer is an adventure waiting to happen!

*This blog first appeared on the Bubbles Academy blog.